A transformative ministry dedicated to emotional healing, stronger marriages, purposeful families, and thriving communities โ through God's Word and psychological insight.
Born to a single mother and raised by his grandparents in the rural outskirts of the Eastern Cape, Khaya Sodladla is a husband, father, pastor, author, marriage counsellor, and speaker based in Gqeberha, South Africa.
He is a qualified Cognitive Behavioural Therapist (CBT) and serves as Local Pastor at His Grace Tabernacle, working closely with individuals and couples navigating emotional healing, relationships, and personal growth. His work blends CBT, biblical insight, and psychological understanding for truly holistic transformation.
Beyond pastoral ministry, Khaya is a businessman recognised as a Water Saving Ambassador by the Nelson Mandela Municipality. He hosts Building Healthy Marriages on Kingfisher FM.
Every service is rooted in the belief that healthy individuals build healthy families โ and healthy families build healthy societies.
CBT-based sessions to restore connection, rebuild communication, and strengthen your marriage covenant.
Evidence-based CBT therapy to reframe negative thought cycles and rediscover hope and emotional stability.
Strengthening family systems, improving communication, and building a healthy connected home.
Compassionate CBT support addressing the root emotional triggers behind addictive behaviours.
Goal-oriented sessions to clarify your vision, break through mental blocks, and step into your purpose.
Discover your emotional blueprint and understand the thought patterns shaping your relationships and life.
In-person and online courses for lasting emotional and relational health grounded in CBT and Scripture.
A curated collection by Pastor Khaya covering marriage, parenting, emotional health, and purpose.
Invite Pastor Khaya to your church, conference, or corporate event for a powerful, life-changing talk.
Each book blends Scripture with psychological insight to help you break destructive patterns and live with purpose.
All 6 books at a special bundle โ save over 30%!
Our events create sacred, joyful spaces for couples and individuals to reconnect, heal, and celebrate life together.
An intimate evening of music, slow dancing, laughter and connection for married couples.
An elegant dinner event bringing couples together in the grand ballroom for inspiration.
A full-day seminar empowering singles and couples with practical marriage wisdom.
Pastor Khaya C. Sodladla is a qualified Cognitive Behavioural Therapist who integrates evidence-based CBT techniques with biblical wisdom and pastoral care โ providing a uniquely holistic approach to healing that addresses the mind, emotions, relationships, and spirit.
Using Cognitive Behavioural Therapy alongside biblical insight, Pastor Khaya offers structured, confidential counselling programs tailored to your unique situation and needs.
CBT-based sessions helping couples identify destructive thought patterns, rebuild communication, restore trust, and strengthen their covenant bond.
Evidence-based CBT therapy to help you identify and reframe negative thought cycles, manage anxiety, and rediscover hope, peace, and emotional stability.
Strengthening family systems, improving parent-child communication, resolving conflict, and building a healthy, connected home environment.
Compassionate CBT support to address the root emotional triggers behind addictive behaviours, supporting lasting recovery and renewed purpose.
Goal-oriented sessions to help you clarify your vision, break through mental blocks, build healthy habits, and step boldly into your purpose and potential.
Equipping engaged couples with practical CBT tools, communication skills, and a strong biblical foundation for a lasting, intentional marriage.
"CBT helps you recognise that your thoughts, emotions, and behaviours are deeply connected. By changing the way you think, you can change the way you feel โ and ultimately, how you live."
โ Khaya C. Sodladla, CBT Therapist & Pastor
Structured learning experiences taking you from insight to lasting change, grounded in Scripture and proven psychological practice.
All LevelsIdentify the emotional DVDs running in your life and learn how to rewrite your emotional story.
SinglesFatal mistakes singles make when it comes to marriage. Prepare intentionally for the right relationship.
CouplesPress reset on destructive patterns, pain, and disconnection. Rebuild your marriage with intention.
ParentsUnderstanding how your emotional DVDs affect your children and how to raise emotionally healthy kids.
SpiritualIdentify spiritual forces of division and restore your family, finances, and purpose with a practical plan.
Tailored emotional intelligence & team wellness workshops for organisations.
Enquire NowOur proprietary assessment helps you identify the emotional patterns, triggers, and relational styles secretly shaping your life โ often without your awareness.
Identify your core emotional triggers and where they originate.
Discover how you attach, communicate, and respond in your closest relationships.
A personalised report with actionable insights and next steps.
A customised journey toward emotional health matched to your unique profile.
Complete the form and we'll send your personalised assessment link within 24 hours.
Taking the first step towards healing and growth is the most courageous thing you can do. Pastor Khaya offers confidential counselling in person in Gqeberha or online via video call.
All sessions are conducted with strict confidentiality, compassion, and a commitment to your wellbeing.
We will confirm your appointment within 24 hours.
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"Pastor Khaya's counselling saved our marriage. We were about to give up, but after a few sessions we rediscovered each other and fell in love all over again."
"Emotionally Hijacked opened my eyes to why I kept self-sabotaging. I finally understand my patterns and I'm breaking free. This book is a game changer."
"The Couples Picnic was the most beautiful, healing evening we've attended. We laughed, we cried, and held each other closer. Thank you, Pastor Khaya!"
Whether you have questions, want to book a session, invite Pastor Khaya to speak, or simply need someone to talk to โ reach out. We are here.
We respond to all enquiries within 24โ48 hours.